Each day of our wedding weekend has a distinct dress code. Since it’s going to be warm and sunny, summer fabrics like linen, cotton, and seersucker are your best friends. Leave the wool and polyester at home.
It’s a white party! We want you in something semi-formal and entirely white. If you’re a guy, think white button down, white pants, and loafers. A white jacket if you’re feeling extra fancy. If you’re going to wear shorts, make them nice — J.Crew style, not athletic shorts. If you’re a lady, a white cocktail dress, sundress, or romper will look beautiful. No need for a full gown.







This is the big day — we want you in something a bit more formal than Friday and colorful. Get creative: colorful jackets, suits, ties, dresses, bold prints — you name it. Avoid white, beige, or cream, or Jared will personally escort you out. If you’re a man, you’ll want pants (no shorts) and a jacket. If you’re a woman, think a dress that’s a step up from what you wore Friday. Make sure you can dance the whole night. Have comfy shoes handy for the walk from the pier to the ballroom.










No jeans, cargo shorts, Hawaiian shirts, sneakers, basketball or workout shorts, baseball caps, or flip-flops at any event except Sunday. Remember: summer fabrics only — no wool, polyester, or heavy materials. Think White Lotus energy, not frat party energy. Please express yourself authentically — our guidance for “guys” and “girls” is just for ease of reference. Gender is a construct, so wear whatever makes you feel your best.







