Friday—White Semi-Formal
It’s a white party! We want you in something semi-formal and entirely white. If you’re a guy, think white button down, white pants, and loafers. A white jacket if you’re feeling extra fancy. If you’re going to wear shorts, make them nice — J.Crew style, not athletic shorts. If you’re a lady, a white cocktail dress, sundress, or romper will look beautiful. No need for a full gown.
Saturday—Tropical Formal
This is the big day — we want you in something a bit more formal than Friday and colorful. Get creative: colorful jackets, suits, ties, dresses, bold prints — you name it. Avoid white, beige, or cream, or Jared will personally escort you out. If you’re a man, you’ll want pants (no shorts) and a jacket. If you’re a woman, think a dress that’s a step up from what you wore Friday. Make sure you can dance the whole night. Have comfy shoes handy for the walk from the pier to the ballroom.
Sunday—Resort Wear & Swimsuits
Wear some fun swim or resortwear. You’ll probably want to be in a bathing suit so that you can dip in the pool or the ocean. To all of our fellow gay boys in attendance—you can wear a Speedo if you’d like, but please leave the thongs and more revealing stuff at home since you’ll be strutting around our parents and elderly family members.
What Not to Wear
No jeans, cargo shorts, Hawaiian shirts, sneakers, basketball or workout shorts, baseball caps, or flip-flops at any event except Sunday. Remember: summer fabrics only — no wool, polyester, or heavy materials. Think White Lotus energy, not frat party energy.
